Allen Berger, Ph.D.
Couples who are happiest
In this Twoology video, relationship expert, Allen Berger, Ph.D explains if you want a healthy long term relationship that thrives you need to realize that “happily ever after” is a fairy-tale term. Happy couples work together to help each other grow. You can help each other to love and live happier ever after. Relationships come with expectations. Twoology helps couples fulfill them.
What are the traits of couples who are happiest? When people start to think about the phrase “happily ever after”, what’s that all about? Well, a part of me thinks that people came up with that in order to give everyone something to strive for, because a relationship isn’t about happily ever after. The value of a relationship is this: people grow up in a relationship. If they grow up in the right way, if they meet each other in the right way, the value is much more than being happy.
It’s really about becoming the person that you were meant to be. It’s fulfilling yourself and being able to embrace life as it is. See, a good connection will help you become the best person that you can be. At the same time, you’re going to help your partner become the best person that they can be, and that’s much bigger than happily ever after. Much bigger.
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