Men know Valentine’s Day is really about making you happy. So, when you surprise him with touches of affection that turn him on, well….you’re going to have quite something to enjoy and remember!
Focus on the two of you
This is not “Valentines Night for Parents”; it’s just for the two of you! No kids. No pets. No one else, except the two of you all night long.
This one is always a mood enhancer and something will bring the two of you closer together. You might even consider joining him with a “romantic couple’s massage for two”.
Plan a Kinky Night in the Bedroom
Have there been a few things that you’ve talked about doing in the bedroom? Valentine’s Day is the night where you can bring it all to life. You may want to get a few things to help you do this. This can include such things as handcuffs, whip cream, and blindfolds. Make it is kinky or as tame as you both want and revel in it for the whole night. Think about role playing, costumes, and doing things that you would never normally do in the bedroom.
Dinner for Two
If you have children, find a babysitter, tonight is just for you and your man. Make reservations at his favorite restaurant or if you two have a special place that means a lot to both of you, eat there. Whatever you choose, a romantic dinner for two is something both of you will enjoy.
Cook Him Dinner
Plan a romantic dinner and cook his favorite meal. If you are friends with any of his family members, find out what his favorite meal was as a child and re-create it for him. Break out the tablecloth, the candles, and the good dishes so you can break away from the norm. Find some romantic tunes to play in the background. Chances are he will be so touched that you were this resourceful that he will shower love upon you as well.
A Meaningful Gift
A Valentine’s Day gift for a man doesn’t have to be exorbitant, it can be something he likes or wants, maybe a new golf club or a watch that he has been talking about. Avoid cologne and clothing, a real man can dress himself and choose his own style of clothing and cologne has become more of a necessity than a gift now days.
A Romantic Evening for Two
This one is more personal and can involve anything the two of you are willing to do. Remember, Valentine’s Day is all about love and showing him how much you love him can be done in so many ways. Be creative and think about both of your needs; your night be will much more exciting and enjoyable that way.
Send Him on a Scavenger Hunt
This is going to require some planning, but you can send your partner on a hunt throughout your house or the town. Write out some different clues so that he will go from location to location, collecting even more clues. The end location should be where you are – either at home, your favorite restaurant, or somewhere else for the romance to begin.
Plan a Little Getaway
If it has been a while since you’ve both gotten away, you will be able to relax. If you are not at home. You can plan a little getaway, even when you are tight on cash. Groupon and other saving sites can help you to book a hotel or bed and breakfast without spending a fortune.
Create a Coupon Book
A coupon book is a gift that keeps on giving. Inside, there can be all sorts of coupons that your man can cash in on at any time. You can determine how many coupons to give and when they expire. Whether you make it from supplies at the art store or you print it from the computer is up to you. Some ideas for coupons include:
- Sex at any time
- Make-out session
- Date of his choosing
- Cancellation of a girl’s night out
- Vacuuming in the nude
You can be as naughty as you want with the coupons because he is the only one that’s going to be able to see (and redeem) the coupons. These will be a lot of fun for him to get and to use – and it doesn’t require you spending any money in order to provide the gift. Plus it ensures that the two of you have fun together long after Valentine’s Day is over.
Go to the store and buy some ingredients to bake a cake, brownies, or something else. This will be an opportunity for the two of you to spend some time together in the kitchen – and bake something with your time. You can flirt with each other by putting flour on each other’s noses and make out while you wait for the oven timer to ding. Once your creation is ready, you can sit next to each other or climb under the covers together to enjoy the sweets.
Do Something Different
Go outside the box and think of something different that the two of you can do. Maybe you have been talking about going to Vegas, but don’t have the money. Create your own Vegas in the house. You can get some play casino chips and play roulette, blackjack, and other things. You can even put on your own Vegas showgirls act with a naughty little costume from the lingerie store. It will be something that is memorable and that he will love.
Not the time for problems
Whatever you do, wherever you go, however you choose to celebrate, remember that this is not the time to talk about anything which might upset either one of you: no kids; no discussions about money or work or in-laws, or anything that comes anywhere near taking the focus off making you focus on what makes you both happy.
How do you look?
Make his eyes especially happy to look at you. Wear touchable fabrics, dangling earrings, and anything else that makes him want to tear your clothes off and shower you with his many amour.
- Celebrate Valentine’s Day with confidence and romance. You don’t need a lot of money to be romantic with your man and many of the ideas listed here don’t require any money at all. Be creative and take into consideration what your man likes. Once you do this, you will know exactly what you need to proceed with a Valentine’s Day gift. For this special day, you will need massage oil, soft music and perhaps candles for the massage “session”, a special gift and any necessary items to finish your romantic evening is style.
- As you can see, there are many things that you can do to make this Valentine’s Day very special for your man. It doesn’t have to be over the top, it can be something as simple as a night out or a romantic evening in for the both of you. You can’t go wrong with whatever you plan as long as you remember to keep his needs in mind throughout the day. It’s that time of year again and although it can be tough for guys to figure out what women want for Valentine’s Day, it can be equally difficult for women to know what that special man in their life would like. Valentine’s Day goes far beyond the traditional gift giving associated with birthdays; this is one day where the little things count for a lot more than you realize.