Allen Berger, Ph.D.
In this Twoology video, relationship expert, Allen Berger, Ph.D., offers the #1 tip for couples to deal with a sexless marriage. Oftentimes people stop having sex because the sex is not worth having. To start having sex again, you both have to be committed to improving the sex.
How do you deal with a sexless marriage? A lot of times, people say that the reason why people stop having sex is because the sex isn’t worth having. Well, what makes it not worth having? The fact that people don’t talk to each other about what they want, about what’s important to them. They stop that dialogue. All that needs to be dealt with.
If you deal with that, then the quality of your sex life can be better than ever before. But it’s going to take a period of time, because, at first, it’s going to be hard for you to open yourself up to your partner. So, what I would recommend to you is that you don’t go there until you are certain that you’re both committed to working the relationship out together.
If you’re the one who has been betrayed, communicating to your partner what you want and need sexually can be quite a challenge emotionally. So, make sure you’re both committed to the relationship and heading in the same direction. I don’t want you to get vulnerable and then be hurt again. I want you to be vulnerable only once you’re certain that you guys are heading towards a reconciliation.
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