Allen Berger, Ph.D.
Asking for what you want
In this Twoology video, marriage expert, Allen Berger, Ph.D. advises you how to make requests without sounding demanding. This is critical to what every healthy relationship needs to stand the test of time. Instead, approach your partner in a good-natured and pleasant manner and they are much more likely to respond.
If you have a desire to spend more time with your partner, I would suggest that you talk about it in the following way: Start out with, “I miss you. I really love you. You’re great. I enjoy my time with you, and I’d like to do some things with you.”
If you’re looking for ideas on what to do them, go to the website. There are some great resources for you there. But approach them in that way, because you’re going to get more bees with honey than you are with vinegar. So if you approach your partner in that way, then you’ve got a chance of getting what you want.
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